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Understanding spelling rules

Discover how spelling rules can help your child become a better speller with BetterSchool.
Lisa Thorsen
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Key takeaways
  • Teaching spelling rules rather than relying solely on memorization equips children with the skills to decode and encode words effectively
  • By introducing patterns gradually, using hands-on methods, and addressing exceptions, parents can help their kids become confident spellers who understand the logic behind English spelling.

Spelling rules are guidelines that help us write words correctly in English. They show patterns that make spelling easier, rather than just memorizing words.

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What are spelling rules?

Spelling rules are patterns that tell us how to write words in English. Instead of memorizing every word, kids can learn rules like 'drop the silent e before adding -ing.' This helps them spell new words they haven’t studied before. These rules also connect reading and writing—what you use to read words helps you spell them. While English has many exceptions, studies show that teaching spelling rules works better than just memorizing.

The phonics connection

Spelling is just the other side of reading. When kids read, they decode sounds from letters. When they spell, they encode sounds into letters. The same sound patterns help in both cases. For example, knowing that 'oa' makes the long o sound helps with reading 'boat' and spelling it too. Good phonics lessons support spelling development. Programs like Orton-Gillingham teach this back-and-forth connection, showing students that spelling is based on patterns they already know from reading.

Teaching spelling rules effectively

Start teaching spelling rules step by step. Begin with basic patterns like short vowels and consonant blends before moving to harder rules like silent e and vowel digraphs. Teach each rule clearly with examples and let students practice with new words. Use different methods—like saying words out loud, writing on textured surfaces, or using letter tiles—so all kids can learn. And don’t ignore exceptions; tell students honestly that 'i before e' has some exceptions. This understanding makes them better spellers.

Why English spelling seems chaotic

English spelling can be confusing. The language has borrowed from many others, like Anglo-Saxon, French, Latin, and Greek, each having its own spelling rules. For instance, 'knight' keeps an Old English pronunciation while 'receipt' follows French spelling. This history explains why English spelling has so many exceptions. It’s genuinely harder than languages like Spanish or Finnish. Knowing this context helps students and parents face exceptions with curiosity instead of frustration. There are still patterns, but they're complex.

The bottom line

Teaching spelling through rules, instead of just memorizing, gives students tools they can use for many words. While English has its tricky parts, most words follow learnable patterns. Good spelling instruction connects to phonics knowledge, introduces rules gradually, uses hands-on methods, and openly addresses exceptions. Kids who understand why words are spelled a certain way become more confident writers, ready to tackle new words logically instead of guessing.

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Lisa Thorsen
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Lisa Thorsen

Co-founder, BetterSchool

Lisa is the co-founder of BetterSchool and a homeschool mom of three. BetterSchool administers the largest independent homeschool community in the country — over 350,000 families across all 50 states.

When COVID hit, Lisa and her husband pulled their children out of school and hit the road. Homeschooling wasn't the plan — it was a necessity. But somewhere along the way, the family fell in love with it: the time together, the ability to tailor lessons to each child's interests, learning at their own pace, the freedom to travel, eating healthy on their own schedule, and the countless other benefits that come with homeschooling.

As they traveled, Lisa kept discovering incredible hands-on learning experiences that most homeschool families had no way of finding. She built BetterSchool to make it easy for every family to find and book the experiences that make learning come alive.

Through her community, Lisa has helped hundreds of thousands of parents navigate homeschooling, while also helping local businesses find and serve the homeschool community. She is the former managing partner of a law firm focused on business law and mergers and acquisitions — BetterSchool is her second technology startup. She holds a J.D. from California Western School of Law and a B.A. from Penn State.

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Table of Contents

  • What are spelling rules?
  • The phonics connection
  • Teaching spelling rules effectively
  • Why English spelling seems chaotic
  • The bottom line
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