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Understanding readiness skills in homeschooling

Learn about readiness skills and how homeschooling can enhance your child's development across all areas.
Lisa Thorsen
Written byLisa Thorsen
3 min read
Key takeaways
  • Readiness skills, encompassing social-emotional, cognitive, language, physical, and learning approaches, are essential for children's success at every grade level, not just kindergarten
  • Homeschooling allows parents to tailor learning experiences to their child's unique needs, fostering development through play and exploration while addressing any gaps in readiness skills promptly.

Readiness skills are the abilities that help kids succeed at school. They include social, emotional, physical, and cognitive skills. They’re important at every grade level, not just for kindergarten.

Research from the National Home Education Research Institute (NHERI) shows that homeschooled students typically score 15 to 25 percentile points higher than public school students on standardized academic achievement tests. According to the National Center for Education Statistics (NCES), approximately 3.3 million students were homeschooled in the United States as of 2023, representing roughly 6% of the school-age population.

What are readiness skills?

Readiness skills are the abilities kids need to do well in school. While we often think of them for kindergarten, they matter at every grade change. It’s not just about academics—these skills also include social, emotional, physical, and thinking abilities. Research shows there are five big areas:

  • Social-emotional development
  • Cognitive skills
  • Language and literacy
  • Physical development (both fine and gross motor skills)
  • Approaches to learning (like curiosity and focus)

These areas work together. When a child grows in one area, it helps them in others.

The homeschool advantage

Homeschooling has some big perks for building readiness skills. You can adapt learning to fit your child’s needs, rather than sticking to strict grade levels. For example, a child might be great at language but need more time on fine motor skills.

This flexibility means you don't have to keep a child back just because they struggle in one area. Preschool kids learn best through play and exploration, not formal classes, which studies show leads to better results. Plus, when you spot readiness gaps, you can fix them right away—no waiting for formal help.

The bottom line

Readiness skills lay the groundwork for all future learning. They grow best through play and responsive parenting, not just early academics. As a homeschooler, you can help your child develop in all five areas at their own pace. Don’t stress about hitting every milestone. Focus on progress, not perfection. If you notice delays, early intervention can make a big difference.

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Lisa Thorsen
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Lisa Thorsen

Co-founder, BetterSchool

Lisa is the co-founder of BetterSchool and a homeschool mom of three. BetterSchool administers the largest independent homeschool community in the country — over 350,000 families across all 50 states.

When COVID hit, Lisa and her husband pulled their children out of school and hit the road. Homeschooling wasn't the plan — it was a necessity. But somewhere along the way, the family fell in love with it: the time together, the ability to tailor lessons to each child's interests, learning at their own pace, the freedom to travel, eating healthy on their own schedule, and the countless other benefits that come with homeschooling.

As they traveled, Lisa kept discovering incredible hands-on learning experiences that most homeschool families had no way of finding. She built BetterSchool to make it easy for every family to find and book the experiences that make learning come alive.

Through her community, Lisa has helped hundreds of thousands of parents navigate homeschooling, while also helping local businesses find and serve the homeschool community. She is the former managing partner of a law firm focused on business law and mergers and acquisitions — BetterSchool is her second technology startup. She holds a J.D. from California Western School of Law and a B.A. from Penn State.

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  • The homeschool advantage
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