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Understanding fine motor skills

Learn about fine motor skills, why they matter, and how to help your child develop them at home.
Lisa Thorsen
Written byLisa Thorsen
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Key takeaways
  • Fine motor skills are essential for tasks like writing and self-care, developing through practice and play
  • Parents can support this growth with fun activities such as using playdough, threading beads, and engaging in everyday tasks, ensuring children build the necessary strength and coordination for academic success.

Fine motor skills are the small movements involving hands and fingers, essential for tasks like writing and buttoning clothes. These skills develop through practice and play.

Research from the National Home Education Research Institute (NHERI) shows that homeschooled students typically score 15 to 25 percentile points higher than public school students on standardized academic achievement tests. Most homeschool families report completing core academic subjects in 3-4 hours per day for elementary students, compared to the 6-7 hours typical of traditional schools, due to the one-on-one instruction and absence of classroom management overhead (NHERI, 2024).

What are fine motor skills?

Fine motor skills refer to the way we use our muscles, joints, and nerves for small movements. These skills are mainly about our hands and fingers but also involve toes, lips, and tongues. They include actions like reaching, grabbing, and moving objects. Hand-eye coordination is a big part of this. Unlike gross motor skills, which involve big movements like running, fine motor skills help us do detailed tasks in daily life. Think of holding a pencil, tying shoes, or cutting with scissors.

Why fine motor skills matter for learning

Fine motor skills are crucial for handwriting. Kids with weak fine motor skills often find it hard to write neatly, which can hurt their school performance. Before kids can write well, they need strong hands and fingers to grip a pencil and form letters. This development happens in steps: first, they use their whole arm, then their hands, and finally their fingers. If parents rush handwriting without these basics, kids may develop bad habits that are tough to fix later.

Activities that build fine motor skills

To help build fine motor skills, make it fun! Here are some activities:

  • Playdough: Squeeze, roll, and pinch it to strengthen hands.
  • Threading: String beads or Cheerios to improve precision and hand-eye coordination.
  • Tweezers: Use them to pick up small items, building the pincer grasp needed for writing.
  • Sticker Activities: Practice peeling stickers, similar to buttoning clothes.
  • Clothespins: Squeeze them to build finger strength for using scissors. Even everyday tasks like opening jars or pulling off marker caps help. Just make sure to fit these activities into your daily routine.

Signs of fine motor delays

Here are some signs that might mean a child is struggling with fine motor skills:

  • Trouble grasping small items or showing no interest in picking things up.
  • An awkward pencil grip after age 3.
  • Frequently switching hands or avoiding one side.
  • Difficulty with self-care tasks like buttoning or using zippers.
  • Avoiding puzzles or threading activities. Most kids show a clear hand preference by ages 3-4. If your child is still switching hands often, it might be worth looking into. Many reasons cause delays, but with early help, most kids catch up. If you're worried, an occupational therapy evaluation can help identify specific needs.

The bottom line

Fine motor skills are key for academic success, especially in writing. Kids need to build strength in their hands through play before they can write well. There’s no shortcut to this process. The good news? You don’t need fancy tools or training. Simple activities like playdough, puzzles, and kitchen tasks can strengthen those small muscles. If your child seems to lag behind in milestones, early help can really make a difference.

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Lisa Thorsen
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Lisa Thorsen

Co-founder, BetterSchool

Lisa is the co-founder of BetterSchool and a homeschool mom of three. BetterSchool administers the largest independent homeschool community in the country — over 350,000 families across all 50 states.

When COVID hit, Lisa and her husband pulled their children out of school and hit the road. Homeschooling wasn't the plan — it was a necessity. But somewhere along the way, the family fell in love with it: the time together, the ability to tailor lessons to each child's interests, learning at their own pace, the freedom to travel, eating healthy on their own schedule, and the countless other benefits that come with homeschooling.

As they traveled, Lisa kept discovering incredible hands-on learning experiences that most homeschool families had no way of finding. She built BetterSchool to make it easy for every family to find and book the experiences that make learning come alive.

Through her community, Lisa has helped hundreds of thousands of parents navigate homeschooling, while also helping local businesses find and serve the homeschool community. She is the former managing partner of a law firm focused on business law and mergers and acquisitions — BetterSchool is her second technology startup. She holds a J.D. from California Western School of Law and a B.A. from Penn State.

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Table of Contents

  • What are fine motor skills?
  • Why fine motor skills matter for learning
  • Activities that build fine motor skills
  • Signs of fine motor delays
  • The bottom line
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