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Unschooling: A natural approach to learning

Unschooling trusts kids to learn naturally through curiosity. Discover how it works and if it's the right fit for your family.
Lisa Thorsen
Written byLisa Thorsen
4 min read
Key takeaways
  • Unschooling allows children to learn through their interests rather than formal instruction, fostering natural curiosity
  • Parents play a crucial role as guides, providing resources and opportunities for exploration, while studies indicate that unschooled children often succeed academically and in life, debunking myths about the effectiveness of this approach.

Unschooling is a learning method where kids learn through their interests rather than traditional classes. Parents support this by providing resources and opportunities for exploration.

Research from the National Home Education Research Institute (NHERI) shows that homeschooled students typically score 15 to 25 percentile points higher than public school students on standardized academic achievement tests. Studies show that homeschooled students are accepted to college at rates comparable to or higher than their traditionally schooled peers, and they tend to earn higher GPAs in their first year of college (Journal of College Admission, 2010).

What is unschooling?

Unschooling flips the idea that kids need formal instruction. It believes kids are natural learners who gain knowledge through curiosity. This term came from educator John Holt in the 1970s, inspired by the 'uncola' campaign. Parents act more as guides than teachers. They create rich environments, answer questions, connect kids with experiences, and trust the learning process. Everyday life is full of learning opportunities—cooking teaches math, chatting covers history, and games build strategy.

John Holt's philosophy

John Holt was a teacher who became frustrated with traditional schools. In his books, 'How Children Fail' and 'How Children Learn', he showed how schools often value compliance over curiosity. After meeting philosopher Ivan Illich, he believed that real learning couldn’t happen in traditional settings. In 1977, he launched 'Growing Without Schooling', the first newsletter for homeschooling. His key idea? Kids don’t need to be forced to learn; they need the right environment.

What a typical day looks like

There’s no one-size-fits-all day for an unschooling family. One day might be spent at a museum, while another could include cooking or gardening. A child fascinated by dinosaurs might dive into books, watch documentaries, create art, and write stories—all without formal lessons. Parents watch for interests, provide resources, and trust that learning is happening, even if it doesn’t resemble a school day.

Common misconceptions

Some think unschooling means kids are left alone without guidance. That’s not true. It actually requires involved parenting. Parents need to understand their child to offer relevant resources and opportunities. Others worry kids won’t learn tough subjects. Studies show that adults who were unschooled often succeed in college. The biggest myth? Unschooling is lazy. When done right, it's anything but.

Documenting learning

For families that need to report learning to the state, unschoolers usually keep portfolios. These can include photos, project descriptions, and activity logs. A cooking session can teach math and chemistry, while building a project can cover physics. Reading historical fiction counts for literature and history. Keeping track often reveals a lot of learning that parents might have missed. Many unschooling families find this reflection helpful, even if they don’t have to.

The bottom line

Unschooling is all about trusting kids to learn when they have freedom and resources. It’s not for everyone—families need to be okay with uncertainty and ditch traditional measurements. But for those who embrace it, unschooling often leads to curious, self-directed learners who know how to chase their interests and solve problems. Research shows that many unschoolers succeed in higher education and appreciate the autonomy they gained.

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Lisa Thorsen
Written by
Lisa Thorsen

Co-founder, BetterSchool

Lisa is the co-founder of BetterSchool and a homeschool mom of three. BetterSchool administers the largest independent homeschool community in the country — over 350,000 families across all 50 states.

When COVID hit, Lisa and her husband pulled their children out of school and hit the road. Homeschooling wasn't the plan — it was a necessity. But somewhere along the way, the family fell in love with it: the time together, the ability to tailor lessons to each child's interests, learning at their own pace, the freedom to travel, eating healthy on their own schedule, and the countless other benefits that come with homeschooling.

As they traveled, Lisa kept discovering incredible hands-on learning experiences that most homeschool families had no way of finding. She built BetterSchool to make it easy for every family to find and book the experiences that make learning come alive.

Through her community, Lisa has helped hundreds of thousands of parents navigate homeschooling, while also helping local businesses find and serve the homeschool community. She is the former managing partner of a law firm focused on business law and mergers and acquisitions — BetterSchool is her second technology startup. She holds a J.D. from California Western School of Law and a B.A. from Penn State.

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Table of Contents

  • What is unschooling?
  • John Holt's philosophy
  • What a typical day looks like
  • Common misconceptions
  • Documenting learning
  • The bottom line
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