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Understanding growth mindset in homeschooling

Discover how a growth mindset can enhance your homeschooling experience and help your child thrive.
Lisa Thorsen
Written byLisa Thorsen
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Key takeaways
  • Embracing a growth mindset in homeschooling fosters resilience and a love for learning in children
  • By praising effort over intelligence, using the word "yet," and normalizing struggles, parents can create a supportive environment that encourages kids to view challenges as opportunities for growth, ultimately enhancing their motivation and success.

A growth mindset is the belief that intelligence and abilities can improve through effort and learning. This mindset contrasts with a fixed mindset, where abilities are seen as unchangeable.

Research from the National Home Education Research Institute (NHERI) shows that homeschooled students typically score 15 to 25 percentile points higher than public school students on standardized academic achievement tests. According to the National Center for Education Statistics (NCES), approximately 3.3 million students were homeschooled in the United States as of 2023, representing roughly 6% of the school-age population.

What is a growth mindset?

A growth mindset is an idea from Stanford psychologist Dr. Carol Dweck. She introduced it in her book, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success. It’s the belief that you can get smarter and better at skills through hard work and learning. This is different from a fixed mindset, which thinks intelligence is set in stone. Dweck found that how students view their abilities affects their motivation and success. Research shows students with a fixed mindset don’t activate their brains when they make mistakes. In contrast, those with a growth mindset do, seeing mistakes as chances to learn.

Practical strategies for homeschoolers

  • Praise effort, not intelligence. Replace "You're so smart!" with "You must have worked really hard!" Kids praised for effort stick with challenges longer.
  • Use the power of 'yet.' Change "I can't do this" to "I can't do this yet."
  • Model a growth mindset. Let your kids see you take on challenges and learn from mistakes.
  • Normalize struggle. Tell them, "This challenging problem means your brain is getting stronger!"
  • Ask reflective questions. Questions like "What worked well?" or "What did you learn from that mistake?" can help.

Why homeschooling is ideal

Homeschooling is great for building a growth mindset. With one-on-one teaching, you can give personalized feedback. You set the pace, so kids can take their time on tough topics without pressure. Home is a safe space for struggling without peer judgment. Kids can take risks and grow at their own speed. Plus, you can quickly spot fixed mindset triggers and address them right away. Many homeschooling families find that a growth mindset becomes the foundation for their learning.

The bottom line

A growth mindset changes how kids see their potential. Instead of seeing struggles as limits, they learn to view them as part of growth. Homeschooling's flexible setup is perfect for nurturing this view. Use growth-focused language, normalize mistakes, praise the process, and show a growth mindset in your actions. The goal is more than just academic success; it’s about raising resilient kids who embrace challenges. Research backs this up, but it’s your effort that makes it happen in your family.

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Lisa Thorsen
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Lisa Thorsen

Co-founder, BetterSchool

Lisa is the co-founder of BetterSchool and a homeschool mom of three. BetterSchool administers the largest independent homeschool community in the country — over 350,000 families across all 50 states.

When COVID hit, Lisa and her husband pulled their children out of school and hit the road. Homeschooling wasn't the plan — it was a necessity. But somewhere along the way, the family fell in love with it: the time together, the ability to tailor lessons to each child's interests, learning at their own pace, the freedom to travel, eating healthy on their own schedule, and the countless other benefits that come with homeschooling.

As they traveled, Lisa kept discovering incredible hands-on learning experiences that most homeschool families had no way of finding. She built BetterSchool to make it easy for every family to find and book the experiences that make learning come alive.

Through her community, Lisa has helped hundreds of thousands of parents navigate homeschooling, while also helping local businesses find and serve the homeschool community. She is the former managing partner of a law firm focused on business law and mergers and acquisitions — BetterSchool is her second technology startup. She holds a J.D. from California Western School of Law and a B.A. from Penn State.

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Table of Contents

  • What is a growth mindset?
  • Practical strategies for homeschoolers
  • Why homeschooling is ideal
  • The bottom line
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